My sibling had dated his husband, Jim for 5years and finally they got married.
- He was against marriage from the start although Jim pushed him into it.
It seemed immediately after getting married, he changed as a person! Jim stopped working, spent all his money and never spent any time with their kids. Finally my sibling had enough and filed for divorce. Finding the right divorce lawyer was no simple task. Divorce/family law is a tricky thing too. Basically it is known that judges favor the mother and leaving the youngsters with her. In this case, my sibling’s husband was a horrible mother and did not deserve the children. He also wanted a bunch of money to support himself and claimed it as child support. However, the lawyer that my sibling picked up was a lifesaver. The guy totally got the situation and did great work at helping him out. First they won the custody case. His ex-husband only gets the youngsters every other weekend and gets hardly anything in child support. He is the main parent and doesn’t have to supply him with much. The only thing he is stuck right now doing is paying his rent and small amounts each month for food, which is more than he deserves. That the lawyer got my sibling the majority of custody without breaking his bank account so I am impressed. The divorce costs and lawyer costs were quite large. But it could have been way worse of a situation for him.